Slowly, we become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have not taken risks and endured much of life’s worst. Generally, by the time we are real, most of our hair has been loved off, and our eyes droop and we get loose in the joints.
While our youth celebrate outward beauty, I’ve learned that these things don’t matter at all. Once we actually become - once we are authentic and real we can’t be ugly, except to people who simply don’t understand the road we’ve traveled .
Being loved sometimes hurts. Although we do our utmost not to deliberately hurt the ones we love, the truth is, we inadvertently hurt the ones we love (and they hurt us). This is because our hearts are exposed the most to the ones we love the most. What greater way is there to communicate and to exist than to live openly, honestly, authentically and real with one another? And if we are truly loved, loved as the divine loves us, no one will care that we are authentic and real. And should anyone reject us as our authentic self, they never really loved us in the first place.
So, as I become authentic, here are the truths I must embrace:
There is no dress rehearsal in life. We get one shot. Make it count. Thank you Jim for reminding me - even in your death - to live.
Michael is an executive coach, entrepreneur, investor, and strategist with 30 years of experience leading investor-backed, high-growth organizations.
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